Here's another thing about my adoptive family. My mother is one of eight siblings. There is not one sibling who lives further than one hour away from my mother's parents. Not one. There are 23 first cousins. Only one lives more than an hour away (and is planning on moving back soon). Two of us went "away" for school and we've both moved home. That's just how we are. Two of my aunts are neighbors. Not like in-the-general-area neighbors, but honest to goodness next-door-sharing-property-lines neighbors. And my grandparents about a mile away. And we live seven minutes up the street. And my other cousins are 12 minutes in the other direction. To say we're close is an understatement.
How are the two related? Well, my cousins are amazing at hockey. Which means that they've all been making their high schools' varsity teams since they were freshmen. And because they live close, but in different towns, the two teams end up playing each other. A lot. And because it's fun to watch, the rest of the family shows up for support. And to give them credit, my cousins are incredibly supportive of one another, even when their teams are playing each other. I have some great photos I took at the games this season of all three boys on the ice at the same time. How amazing! I've watched them pond skate since they were little kids so it's not an unusual sight, just a different one as they were wearing different jerseys this time.
I've been going to a lot of the games lately because it is tournament time. I have cousins on two different teams, plus my home town is in the same league. So I've been cheering them on, driving an hour to the rink after work and on weekends, and screaming for hours as one team and then another would play. Sadly, that journey has come to an end for one team, but not before they took out my hometown. I was actually cheering against my hometown. Weird.
So I was looking back through the pictures and reflecting on the season they had. This particular team is losing nine seniors and will probably have to build themselves back up. Their amazing goalie is graduating, a tough loss for the team next year. I was looking over the bracket, amazed at how far they'd come. I saw where they beat my hometown, where they beat another, and where they finally fell. They were the top team going into the tournament which I knew, but never really thought about. As a side note, the other team won the tournament. Great talent I know!
Gee, I wonder how my team ranking coming into the tournament? Down the list I go. Wow, there's a lot of teams on here! Oh look! There's my hometown! Only 1, 2, 3... 6 from the bottom. Wait a minute. Wait just one minute! What team was that three from the bottom? Oh. My. God.
My sisters' school was in the tournament. The high school that both of my first parents graduated from. The school that KungFuPanda is about to graduate from. And where Sandlot plans on attending next year. There they were. Right there. Lost in the preliminaries. But still. Could you imagine the possibilities there? What a small world. What if they had made it to the game against my cousins? Stranger things have happened. What if my sister and I had both been at that ice rink at the same time? What if my first parents had? They are proud alumnus after all. Freaky. As in twilight freaky.
Even though they were in the same tournament, it turns out that my cousins never played my sister's school. Neither did my hometown. But still. I was not expecting to see them in the same bracket and it threw me for a major loop. Our paths could have crossed. When I was driving home from the game the other night, I probably did cross paths with my first father. We were on the same highway at the same time, me on my way home and him on his way to work. I'm never on that particular highway ever, so it was sort of unnerving knowing that he was probably just ten minutes behind me. So many what ifs and possibilities.
